Thursday, December 29, 2011

An independent woman makes for a happy "man"

The feminist movement has always sought to give equal rights to women and free them from oppressive stereotypes. In the outset of the new millennium, the civilized world has witnessed the balance of sex in the workforce. Women have taken on jobs and become competitors to men. This liberation from the stereotypical stay-at-home woman could have various positive aspects for men which are often downplayed. Firstly, men in a relationship with working women have dual incomes, which enhance their financial standards. Furthermore, the more accomplished women are, the happier and more stable the relationship with one of them is. Last but not least, living in a civilized democratic society leaves no room for servitude, otherwise it would build up a skewed image of democracy.


The 21th century has seen an emergence of convenient relationships called DINKs. Double Income No Kids partners comprise these new generation couples who enjoy higher life standards. Life for them is obviously more material-oriented because of a considerate aggregated revenue but still it gives men the opportunity to enjoy it in more luxurious ways than in a stereotypical relationship. Instead of a bleak vision of coming home late from work totally exhausted and longing for a home meal just before going to sleep, men can afford both energetically and financially eating out with their partner and later enjoy the rest of the evening. In other words, men are no longer the only provider for the family, so they do not feel compelled to overburden themselves with additional late hours which according to Hunter impoverished their lives.


Moreover, having a working woman in a relationship works for the benefit of both sexes. Women can chase their professional careers and become accomplished in the way men have done throughout the centuries. Of course, as everything requires equilibrium in order to work properly, so does their career dedication. Having had work-home environments balanced though, men achieve a peaceful and healthy relationship. By co-operating with other people during the day, both partners have an outlet to their emotions and frustrations without concentrating it on each other. In consequence, it means that women’s enfranchisement works well for the spiritual and psychical well-being of men.

Apart from that, the civilized democratic society cries out for freedom in every aspect, otherwise it is not democratic. One of their postulates is saying no to servitude. Since the feminist movement denounced traditional household jobs as women’s everyday duty, moreover calling it servitude, there has been no room for it in the democratic society. Evidence is provided by Hunter who states that “[n]owadays, women constitute almost fifty per cent of the workforce.” However vague the benefits, which this assumption yields for men, are, the answer to this is more philosophical rather than a straightforward one. What if men were suppressed and confined to menial household chores and activities alike, which would restrain them from professional expansion and personal development? Certainly, that would not be fair, and so were restrictions on women’s freedom in the previous centuries.

In light of the above, men derive lots of benefits from the feminist movement’s assumptions. Apart from enjoying a more lavishly material life in a balanced relationship, they have a chance to develop spiritual serenity and peace of mind averting quarrels and squabbles. All thanks to the fact that women contribute to the professional life and workforce. Having parity among sexes, men have another advantage they can take pride in, e.i. they need not fear (compelling fiction) career adversities for themselves in terms of social prejudices. The rest of stereotypically slanted men who think otherwise are advised to drop their egoistic blinders, because it is the 21st century and women finally want to enjoy some freedom.

6 comments:

  1. Yo man, gotta say that everytime I see such a crappy article I feel chill down the spine, not ever knowing wheter to shake my head in disbelief thinking about how stupid the writer is or just getting over with it and laughing...I might tell you why I think this article is way below standard if you wish, but I am afraid I would reveal my deeply rooted and well-hidden anti-feminist ideas :D Ech, what the heck, I'll tell you. But two questions first man, tell me :

    1) the sex of the author, if you can find it
    2) was it You who chose te pictures accompanying the article or were they with it already?

    Btw Martyr, glad You're on Your feet again addding the articles ;) hope more people get interested this time than with the one about AIDS....

    Regards

    W

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  2. answering:
    1) male, so is the "compelling fiction" article's author. Hunter is female.
    2) it was me
    :)

    you're making me anxious about the FORM of my article ("this article is way below standard.."), but deep inside I know you're refering to the CONTENT, aren't you?

    "well-hidden anti-feminist" that sounds a hell of interesting, really!

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  3. my first impression after having read the article is some strange feeling that it's about sth out of space, since maybe i havent been raised in a so stereotyped assumption that women's place is in the kitchen and they shouldn't work and strive for their own careers. Nevertheless, the undubitable fact remains that both sexes benefit from the situation when the woman is also the income-pooler.
    I liked your paying attention to the modern DINK relationship pattern, which can easily be found in many American films. I agree that it is purely material-oriented approach, greatly focused on the partners themselves and their fulfilling their needs and dreams. Personally I find this style living as an ideal way of spedning, let say, first 2 years of a serious relationship. Both partners can still use their lives to the full and have time to pool enough income to prepare themselves for the arrival of a new family member in a form of a kid. It goes without saying that it would be much harder to achieve when the man is the only one who earns family's living.

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  4. Yep, thanks for sharing your thoughts. I guess the idea of women striving for their own careers is nothing new, especially in the Western World - sometimes, it may be perceived even as rather odd as you pointed it out.

    The thing is that, people are different around the world, and they have different backgrounds. There are still people who would feel shocked at women's emancipation resulting in them being competitors to men in the workforce, let alone the idea of women surpassing men in professional achievements or salary.

    Can you imagine the shame of earning half or one third of that what earns your wife?

    (men were supposed to be superior to women, weren't they? - the hierarchy has been depicted in literature throughout the centuries. For example, let's refer to the implicit knowledge from the Bible, first there was Adam, then Eve emerged from his rib with God's intervention.)

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  5. Hello Jaded, sorry for not writing for such a long long time but I have finally returned :)

    The thing I mentioned long ago and I believe we have covered outside of Your blog is the pictures You have attached to the article. It might have been Your conscious decision but if it wasn't let me stress it out - they are in stark contrast to the actual content of the article. The pictures present the the typical stereotypes of women at work, especially at some higher, director like positions - as the ones who have reached such positions using their postures, long legs and big boobs :D But maybe this is just my idea

    Second thing - You really believe that a man should be ashamed of himself if his woman earns more than he does?

    Once again, sorry to be a month late ;) hopefully the dialogue can continue even now

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    1. Women shown in the pictures represent the career-women who stand totally in contrast to the stereotypical stay-at-home women.
      1 it turns on (some) men
      2 it has beneficial influence on men as stipulated in this article

      I'm not ashamed if a wife has larger income than a husband but I can image a man being ashamed or even offended. Frankly, I thought you would be thus I wrote it to heat up the discussion :P

      Nice to see you back on the board mate!

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